there’s a post where someone said “can you respect trans women who look like men” and someone responded something like “hell yeah I love people who fuck with gender!” and like… yeah that’s cool, but in a lot of spaces “trans woman who looks like a man” is a lot less likely to be someone who is intentionally comfortably presenting masculine, and a lot more likely to be a girl who hasn’t started transition, or can’t safely, or just didn’t or couldn’t put in the effort to pass as fem today, and a lot of them will just look like schlubby dudes and not a radically presenting queer person. and you should be able to respect that.
a post containment breach is usually when a specific fandom post is vague enough that folks outside of the fandom start reblogging it bc it’s relatable. the opposite of this is when a random post accidentally vibes too hard with a fandom and op has to respond with “who’s [this person you keep tagging]” and I for one, love that genre of post.